ANNOYED.....

Something has been bothering me here lately... and you know it actually goes back to a post that so many of you liked...

Words

Well, I have been hurt by words of a status I read. The person complained that LuLaRoe should not be worn outside of the house on some people.

Why?!

If you are confident and comfortable... Girl Rock it!

I have a hard time finding my size clothes in the "normal" brands... Always have.  

I enjoyed Lularoe more because I am comfortable and well being married and I'm not feeling like I need to look a certain part anymore and honestly I get more complements on my LuLaRoe than other brands I may wear. 

Anyway, her complaint started with LuLaRoe reps adding her to the groups without her permission.. Which yes I agree is annoying when they all gang up on you and do that...

Then it quickly became a chat on her status of how people don't look good wearing LuLaRoe.

It hurt me not just cause I wear it but, because I know this person is in the spotlight enough to where she has fans... her other job is one where she is supposed to be helping people feel good about themselves and become healthy and proud. 

Just seeing her agreeing with those comments made me sit back and think WOW... Thanks a lot!

I was taught at my old job... to be aware of posts made especially about children or what I wouldn't want my students to be reading.  

Did I show the image of a teacher on social media?

So, Just thinking she probably has hurt fans out there that wear LuLaRoe and she talked bad about them. 

Just saying she isn't interested in the LuLaRoe brand would have been enough.

Not list her reasons and opinions why...

Just don't see how that helped her image... cause it surely made me feel like she said you were ugly if you wore LuLaRoe.

Think before you speak... or type.

I mean yes... we are all entitled to our opinions but if you have people looking up to you... Probably should keep some things to yourself. 

Anyway, Remember no matter what someone says... You are Beautiful!

<3 Ashley

Do you have a name for your car?

Good Morning!

Hello!

How are you?

The weekend was so BEAUTIFUL here!

Nice days for taking little drives around town with the windows down.....

This may be silly... but it's something I have heard others do...

Name their vehicle...

Do you have a name for yours?

I don't..

My husband now he names his... 

There's been...

Violent Violet

Silver Bullet

RAM

Ol Betsy

Civic

and more but that's all I can think of at the moment.....

I actually helped name his Chevy C10 though...

Quite proud

Plus it got him to shine that smile because he liked it too!

SCORE!

Now this truck... I can't get made at him but so much for spending all his time and thoughts...with this truck...

I did kinda ask for it...

I wanted an old truck to ride in when we go to Sunday breakfast and go for rides with Audrey.

Somehow it turned into an experiment on how to get it faster...

And I don't think Audrey is going to be allowed in it.

Now back to the name.... What would you name this "beauty?"

After hearing all the talk on how fast it's going to be and how crazy it's going to sound....

A song came to mind...

Black Betty by Ram Jam

Whoa Black Betty...... Whoa Black Betty...

PERFECT NAME!

Black Betty!

Friends have even been told her name.......

I must have done really good!

Share with me the names of your cars or trucks!

Hope this helped give you all a little laugh or smile for your Monday!

<3 Ashley

Be a voice....not an echo

Lately, I have been faced with the feeling of disappointment with myself for caring about someone who clearly only cares about her self. As I step back, I see that she always likes to be a step ahead of everyone but in reality she's not. You shouldn't compare yourself to anyone, no one else in the world is fully like you. Do you really love your life or just the idea of everything happening in it? I can truly say I love my life I am happy with who I am today and it makes me mad that I always care so much about others before myself and yet if i'm sick they are ones that never call to check on me but expect you to move mountains for them each and everyday. 


I often feel like I repeat myself but the thoughts still replay in my mind as why people go through life accepting childish behavior from grown adults? 

Is it really not alright to stand up for yourself?


I'm sorry but if I've had enough.....I've had enough! If you are suppose to always stay quiet and not stand up for yourself then ......still eating lunch in the bathrooms at middle school....I would still be in an abusive relationship. I just wouldn't be the person I am today or happy!
I love that I am happy in life everyone should be happy in life!

So tired of people that feel the need to be so hateful just because of their own insecurities, always playing the victim after they were the ones to create the chaos and causing other people to start to fight, then saying I don't have time to deal with people but all the while sit back and watch the drama unfold....

I really feel sorry for people who go through life not knowing who they are and are always trying to be someone they aren't! You really have to love yourself before you can love anyone else! 
You are the one you are stuck with forever. Others can walk away but you are stuck being you. 
I'm very sorry if this offends anyone or depresses anyone. It's my blog to be able to type my thoughts and so there's a little insight to what's going on in my brain today.
<3 Ashley

 Words

Outside things look great but inside.....

Hello everyone! Hope you are having a wonderful weekend! Today has been a lazy day for me and I really needed it. Thunderstorms occurred last night that woke me so I ended up sleeping later today.

 I found another quote today that I felt like sharing because well it is totally how I am feeling today.

I am staying quiet about a few things and inside I am just screaming at the top of my lungs. I really hate conflict but I also don't like being disrespected.  But what do you do? I have spoken my mind and yet things haven't changed and I am still in the wait and see stage. I am to the point where if something doesn't happen very soon about the situations... my taking a stand will be leaving the situations behind me...

<3 Ashley

Does it really pay to be good?

That is a question I keep asking myself over and over. I like being a good person and I sleep just fine at night but with some events that have taken place recently it has really made me wonder. I work 3 jobs and still struggle here and there and don't make a big deal of it because I am doing the best I can and well I make sure I don't spend all of my money shopping. Sometimes life throws a little curve and I end up not saving as much from pay check to paycheck because of it. I see others spend all their money and yet have others giving them money," oh yeah sure I'll pay you back." and yet they never do and still keep getting money. How about ones that do the same rude actions over and over and still get whatever they want. When does it stop? I don't understand but I am happy to be the good person I am it just saddens me that others are so rude and hurtful and get away with everything because I know if I was every to do the same actions I would get in trouble right away.

Hope you all have a wonderful day

<3 Ashley

Words...

Actions speak louder then words, but sometimes words can hurt more then anything else. Words don't have power to hurt, unless the person who said them means a lot to you. Think before you speak! Once those words are said they can be only forgiven but not forgotten. We all do it... we talk about people to others whether it is venting about them to others or just straight talking about them. Be mindful of who can hear. you may be hurting that person who over hears more then the person you are talking about. 

That's my wisdom for this Wednesday! Like Thumper said, "if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all."

<3 Ashley